(UK) Parents sound alarm over kids with GI problems; hospital admissions at 10 yr high
- The end of childhood

- Sep 4, 2025
- 3 min read
Sept 3, 2025, BBC News: 'My son's constipation wasn't taken seriously until he reached crisis point'
A mother who feared her two-year-old son's untreated constipation could have killed him is calling for access to children's continence services to be made a national priority.
Elissa Novak said Ivan was constantly vomiting, losing weight and in severe pain when it was at its worst, and a doctor said 2kg of his 10kg (22lb) body weight was estimated to be stool.
The number of children aged up to 16 admitted to English hospitals suffering with constipation, among other symptoms, is at a 10-year high, with more than 44,000 admissions in 2023-24, according to NHS figures.
Children are being failed by the absence of dedicated bladder and bowel services in some parts of the country, an expert said.
About 1.5 million children in the UK suffer with constipation, according to the charity Bladder and Bowel UK.
As many children returned to school this week, charities have told the BBC they are seeing a spike in calls to their helplines.
"It's a huge problem and many healthcare professionals don't consider it a serious issue in children," said Davina Richardson, a children's specialist nurse with the charity.
"Discussing wee and poo is very un-British. It's not something that we as a culture do."
Elissa said Ivan, who is now aged five, had been "completely robbed of his toddler years" due to health issues resulting from constipation.
He was admitted to hospital 25 times in one six-month period in 2022 for emergency treatment.
"It was horrific," Elissa said. "He was so frail he couldn't lift himself up or do anything.
"He was in pain all the time and either screaming or just lying there because he was too weak."
Ivan became severely underweight as a result of constipation
Elissa, 35, from Nuneaton, said she had constantly gone to hospital paediatricians to try to get help and answers.
At that time in Warwickshire, there was no bowel or bladder community service, which meant they were going to A&E up to four times a week.
It was only when things got to a crisis point that Elissa was told constipation was causing Ivan's pain.
She thinks he would have died had there been any further delay in treating it.
Elissa was told Ivan's entire colon was impacted, which had pushed up into his lung cavity and compromised his lungs.
'Signs missed'
"His stomach was squashed. All of his organs were being pushed out of the way," Elissa said.
"We were in A&E for up to 12 hours at a time... just waiting for an enema of all things.
"It was a very horrible time. It was so traumatic for everybody."
Ivan has two genetic syndromes which affect his cognitive functions.
Elissa thinks this played a part in the signs being missed and constipation not being diagnosed sooner.
"It was seen as 'that's just what disabled children are like'. We did actually have one consultant who said 'disabled children just scream'," Elissa said.
"It wasn't looked into properly, it wasn't taken seriously until he was really at crisis point. His signs of pain weren't recognised. It was just a perfect storm really."
Ivan now has a care package so his constipation can be managed at home with laxatives and daily bowel wash outs.
"It is a huge part of his life and a huge part of his day. He still suffers pain but it's so much better," his mother said.
Elissa is campaigning for better bladder and bowel care services across the country.
"People are falling through the cracks," she said.
Brenda Cheer, a paediatric specialist continence nurse with children's bowel and bladder charity Eric, said children's constipation was on the rise for a number of reasons, including delayed potty training and today's generation of children spending more time in childcare.
She said children were being failed in areas where there was no dedicated children's continence service.
"There's huge disparity of those services," she said.
"Where is the parent supposed to go? How are they supposed to get the help they need? How is a family supposed to access support if there is no children's bladder and bowel nurse?"
Constipation can be treated in the community and should not require a hospital admission, but is not being recognised, Ms Cheer added. . . .





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